Ways to develop a deeper and More satisfying relationship
One of the problem women faces in a relationship is that men don't empathize with them or listen to them.they don't want to talk when they needed to hear from them. men also faces the problem of how intrusting women feel about them. these are the below ways to solve these problem.
when a woman want a man to talk she should not expect the man to initiate a conversation.To initiate a conversation she should be the one to start the discussion even if her partner has nothing to say. when a man has nothing to say, and is appreciated for lightening he will definitely say something.
for example faith could say James would u listen to me for a while?i have an issue to talk about and if would make me feel better if u could listen. After faith had talk for a few minute she could pause and say i really appreciate when u listen to me it means a lot to me. He automatically feels happy for been appreciated and he sees the value of talk even if he does not want to.
Without appreciation or encouragement he may loose interest because he feels he his just listening and as though doing nothing.
Men are people who appreciate power, ability, success, accomplishment. They feel fulfilled when they accomplish their goals by them self. That is why when u talk to them about what to do they feel embarrassed, they feel they don't know what to door they are not capable. Giving advice takes matters worse and also ,make them fell incapable or unloving.
Allow them to think about it by them self in other to get solution. Thy could either ask professional bodies.when they get the result they become loving the way they use to be.
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Thursday, 30 January 2014
6 key on how to make my relationship work out
Am sure after you are true with the reading of this writing, it would make u have wearness on how to have a good relationship.
most complain women have about men is that men don't listen or don't like to share their feelings so that they could help solve them. men also complain than women are ungrateful, they are trying to change them, they don't appreciate them or make them feel needed. all these problem makes relationship unstable.
These below writing are secret to having a good relationship.
1. men belief they are people of power,efficiency. They value achievement and competency. They make sure they prove their power, ability and skills.They also experience fulfillment or achievement through accomplishment and success. Achieving these goals is a way of proving their competency,so someone else cannot achieve them for him. these are the reason why men refuse to be corrected or told what to be done. To offer or give advice is presumed to them than they don't knew what to do. Allow then to think about their problem. They either solve it for themselves or seek external advice from friends or expert.Then they becoming loving the way they use to be.
2. women value love, empathy, communication, beauty, relationship. They take time to support and nurture their husband about things to do or not.Not knowing men feel controlled, untrusted, unloving.
3. If a man does dot understand a women it can make matters worse while he thinks he is trying to help. Women talks about their problem to get relieved of it and not always to get solution from men,while her husband helps by interrupting and trying to offer solution.
4: A man needs to understand that when a woman is upset and she try to share her feelings she needs to be heard so as to relive her anger.
5: a woman also need to understand that men needs to be appreciated for him listening.this appreciation makes him see or feel the value of talking even though he does not want to talk..
6: understanding each other makes a relationship positive.
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