6 key on how to make my relationship work out
Am sure after you are true with the reading of this writing, it would make u have wearness on how to have a good relationship.
most complain women have about men is that men don't listen or don't like to share their feelings so that they could help solve them. men also complain than women are ungrateful, they are trying to change them, they don't appreciate them or make them feel needed. all these problem makes relationship unstable.
These below writing are secret to having a good relationship.
1. men belief they are people of power,efficiency. They value achievement and competency. They make sure they prove their power, ability and skills.They also experience fulfillment or achievement through accomplishment and success. Achieving these goals is a way of proving their competency,so someone else cannot achieve them for him. these are the reason why men refuse to be corrected or told what to be done. To offer or give advice is presumed to them than they don't knew what to do. Allow then to think about their problem. They either solve it for themselves or seek external advice from friends or expert.Then they becoming loving the way they use to be.
2. women value love, empathy, communication, beauty, relationship. They take time to support and nurture their husband about things to do or not.Not knowing men feel controlled, untrusted, unloving.
3. If a man does dot understand a women it can make matters worse while he thinks he is trying to help. Women talks about their problem to get relieved of it and not always to get solution from men,while her husband helps by interrupting and trying to offer solution.
4: A man needs to understand that when a woman is upset and she try to share her feelings she needs to be heard so as to relive her anger.
5: a woman also need to understand that men needs to be appreciated for him listening.this appreciation makes him see or feel the value of talking even though he does not want to talk..
6: understanding each other makes a relationship positive.
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