how to have a satisfying relationship

                      Ways to develop a deeper and More  satisfying relationship
One of the problem women faces in a relationship is that men don't  empathize with them or listen to them.they don't want to talk when they needed to hear from them. men also faces the problem of how intrusting women feel about them. these are the below ways to solve these problem.
when a woman want a man to talk she should not expect the man to initiate a conversation.To initiate a conversation she should be the one to start the discussion even if her partner has nothing to say. when a man has nothing to say, and is appreciated for lightening he will definitely say something.
for example faith could say James  would u listen to me for a while?i have an issue to talk about and if would make me feel better if u could listen. After faith had talk for a few minute she could pause and say i really appreciate when u listen to me it means a lot to me. He automatically feels happy for been appreciated and he sees the value of talk even if he does not want to.
Without appreciation or encouragement he may loose interest because he feels he his just listening and as though doing nothing.
Men are people who appreciate power, ability, success, accomplishment. They feel fulfilled when they accomplish  their goals by them self. That is why when u talk to them about what to do they feel embarrassed, they feel they don't know what to door they are not capable. Giving advice takes matters worse and also ,make them fell incapable or unloving.
Allow them to think about  it by them self in other to get solution. Thy could either ask professional bodies.when they get the result they become loving the way they use to be.